Just imagine how it feels when someone who barely knows you...goes up to one of your very good friend and comments that you stink...
Just imagine how it feels when that same person also tells that friend that you are not the type someone would go for just because you are very quiet, unable to start a conversation well, seem to be unapproachable and is the type who is looking for commitment?!?!
Just imagine that same person telling your friend that you are a danger zone...n asks your friend to make sure he stays away from you...
I hardly know this guy. Only once did I ever talk to him...and that too not that much. We don't share much in common. So what on the earth am I supposed to talk to him about except for the common 'hi..how was your day' kind of thing. So after just that one day we kind of talked and seeing me around the whole place...he has the right to judge me like that???And not only that TELL one of your good friends what he thinks???
So I am quiet and unable to converse as well as some other people. So what???Does that make me a bad person????Does that make me unattractive???Not everyone can talk all the time...not everyone is able to converse extremely well...It might be a huge turn-off for him...but it doesn't mean that he has to tell someone that I am NOT the right type...He doesn't even know a thing about me....so who the hell is he to just judge me by whatever he "observes"???If he can say all that about me, then I can also say that his personality stinks!
Oh yea...apparently he also told my friend that I stink. For your kind information, I DO NOT stink. I have a very high standard for hygiene and I strictly follow that. My jacket is NOT smelly unlike some other people. I clean it quite regularly. If he smelled something then it is NOT from me. This I am hundred percent sure. And please, everyone has their own distinct scent-a light smell. If you mix them up with stink, that means something is definitely wrong with your nose!
Commitment...doesn't everyone look for commitment in relationships???Ok..so I am the type who prefers long-term commitment...so that is bad???If he doesn't like long-term, it doesn't mean that everyone hates long-term...
So if he can say all these about a person whom he HARDLY knows...just imagine what kind of LOSER he is. Instead of minding his own business, he is butting into others, giving advise when it is NOT needed. I, being a nice person, used to smile at him whenever I used to walk past him and this is the way he treats me. I feel insulted. I am happy with the way I am, thank you very much and if I get someone, that person would have to just like me the way I am. I can't be bothered with him anymore and therefore shall ignore him completely from now onwards.
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9 comments:
Fool. A complete fool, this one.
Don't worry babes. Pity his kids, who have such a loser of a father to look up to!
Btw, my shampoo definitely smells nicer than yours. Coz my hair smells nicer than yours! :p
hey shreosi, ignore such a person. he's a jerk who dosen understand u one bit. hmph!!!
dun worry, you are my bestest fren and just be yourself because we like you for you :) stay strong!
A more mature approach would be talking to him about this and not venting your frustration all on your blog. I doubt ignorance helps. It only motivates such uncivil behaviour.
Once again....
Lovely blog..
Like you said, you dont even know this guy, so why pay heed to such comments...and i'm sure he could only say this behind your back...why not ask him to come and say it to your face....i doubt it..
Anyway, with all your experience, i'm sure you'd know that its best not to let it get to you..
once again...
lovely blog...
aaw.. prith... hehe :p
but yea, on a serious note. dont let him bother u, shreosi!! wat he said shouldnt matter. jerk i tell u!! ur frens love u d way u are, ur family as well... thts all tht matters. howver, if u really do have a problem w tht, like wat anonymous said, talk to him abt it, at least it would get u lesss frustated
stay d same, shreosi :)
Why bother? Why waste time on him by typing so much ona blog?
So many people told me I stink... I jez smile n rub their face into my armpit! (Kidding)
Medha:yea...he is a fool...i pity his wife n kids...sigh...
and about shampoo...my shampoo does not have such a bad smell:p...
Choo: yes im ignoring tat jerk...tat was such a nice thing to say!!thx ming choo:D!!
anonymous:umm...im not exactly supposed to noe all these...my friend exactly told me...so i cant really confront tat guy as then my fren wld get into trouble...so ignorance in this case is better...and right now i cannot be bothered what he says as he is a complete jerk...
Prith: wats up with "lovely blog"??? yea best is not to let it get to me and i noe myself..so i shldnt listen to tat guy...
Nadya: u have a point nadya..thx:)...i was frustrated at that pt of time wen i wrote the post bt now im completely fine...n as i told anonymous i cannot confront him as my fren wld get into trouble...so i shall jz ignore him n be myself:)...
Apoorva: well i didn spend so much time typing...n i was planning to write a short post bt it became this long..anyways i was really angry so had to vent out my anger somewhere...guess writing abt it helps:)..
Bad bad person that guy is...guess he didn't deserve so much space on ur page...
came here from medha's blog...
Nice and colorful one...especially the "poori bhaji" section !!!
hey raul!!
thx for commenting:)!! yea ur rite...the guy dusn deserve so much space...bt wat to do...i was sooo angry at tat time that i jz continued writing...
anyways..keep on visiting n commenting!:D
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