- "What is your decision?"
- "What are the choices?"
- "Should I or should I not?"
Do they sound familiar?I am sure they do...Every other minute or second, we always ask ourselves these questions-consciously and unconsciously. Most of the time we make insignificant decisions. However, sometimes we have to make extremely important decisons. These decisions have the power to change one's life or even one's perspective. These decisions have the power to alienate one from the rest of the world or bring one closer to others.
Since they have such huge impact, how does one go about making a decision that would guarantee a positive outcome?How does one make a decision that would satisfy everyone? It's simple: no one knows for sure...there are no theories to explain or to teach us how to make good decisions...
Because of this many times we are afraid to make these important decisions....or tend to be really uncertain and doubtful...(that's me!) Since we have to make some kind of decision other people's opinions start to matter in this case. Sometimes we tend to follow them(that's me!) or if contradictary opinions are given, we just get even more confused(that's me again!)
So what is the solution?I guess the solution is just to believe in yourself and do what you think is right. You don't have to satisfy everyone...that is just impossible. You just have to live life in your own terms...Whatever the outcome shall be...at least you know that you have done the best that you could. As someone once said:
"Decisions are the endless uncertainties of life that we’ll not know if they are right until the very end, so do the best you can and hope its right."
Decisions shape our destiny...they are a consequence of each and every step we take. We have come this far because of the decisions that we have made. So think carefully before deciding and stick to them once they are made...who knows...the decisions that seem so unfavourable now...may be favourable in the future...
On that note, I have finally made a decision on an issue that has been bugging me for the past few days...and as of right now...I have finally decided to stop writing as it is getting too long. And a big thank you to those that have decided to read this post...
6 comments:
Wow!! Deeeep.. and profound..Cowww, whats UP with you?? Why so serious laaa?? :p
Anyways, on a serious note, you never know whether its right or wrong. You just go with your instincts and take that leap of faith. Thats how it really works!
Nice post i must say..I am sure you have taken the right decision and will continue to do so for the rest of your life..
cheers
i agree with PIG up there :P hehe luv u medz.
watever u decide..hope its the best for u n tht u wont regret it.
just trust your instincts; inspite of all the confusion. Hope that helps.
you're blogging again :) do i know wad decision you finally made that had been bugging you...? hee no matter what, as long as you are happy with your decision thats all that matters!
to ALL: thx for ur advise!!!i more or less figured wat has to be done:)
choo: yup..finally started blogging after a looonggg time...maybe u noe wat im talking abt...i guess as long as im happy wif my decision is wat matters the most...:)
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